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Contents
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Halloween Special: The Phantom
Sweet Tooth Returns
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Feature
Article:
The Phantom Sweet Tooth
Returns!
A strange thing happens
to you after you’ve been practicing the HRH
Program for any length of time. Your sweet
tooth withers and dies.
Around this time of
year, it feels especially odd, as sweets seem to
flow into the house like crisp autumn air
through a drafty window. And since Halloween
seems like a season now, instead of just a day,
I’m especially glad that my sweet tooth is dead.
But in keeping with the
Halloween theme, I’ve noticed that I’m still a
little haunted by the ghost of my former sweet
tooth.
In a way, it seems a lot
like the phantom limbs that are reported by
people who still feel their arms and legs after
they’ve been amputated. The feeling that these
limbs are still on is very real to them. And if
the phantom arm or leg starts to itch, figuring
out how to relieve that, for instance, can be a
real frustration.
Similarly, even though
my sweet tooth has been amputated by the HRH
Program, I still feel it itching sometimes. I
find the sensation of this phantom sweet tooth
to be pretty annoying, because when I eat
something to satisfy it, it just doesn’t taste
very good.
In the past, when people
have told me that their dessert was too rich, I
just didn’t get it. The richer, the better, I
thought. Now I know what they mean, and I just
can’t force down the same quantity of sugar that
I used to. Of course, that’s a good thing, and
I’m glad for it, even if I do miss the
possibility of really downing a really huge
piece of double-dense chocolate cake.
But what exactly is this
phantom sweet tooth? Why is it that I still want
to eat something that my body really doesn’t
like?
The answer seems to be
that my mind has yet to catch up with my body.
I have perpetual thought patterns that have yet
to die along with the cravings that my body had
for the sugary treats.
And thoughts are
powerful things. They have tremendous influence
over our lives, even when we think we’re not
paying much attention to them.
I’ve been re-listening
to an absolute must-read book by Eckhard Tolle
called The Power of Now. In it, he relates ways
to get past having our minds run our lives. But
perhaps the most important part of the
experience of reading or listening (perhaps
especially listening) to the book is that you
become acutely aware of the mental patterns that
repeat on a constant basis—and how much these
patterns actually run your life.
While we may think that
we are in control of our minds, Tolle points
out, in almost all cases, our minds are actually
controlling us. They’ve taken us over, and they
remake and strengthen themselves minute by
minute by repeating and replaying certain ways
of doing things. In essence, we’ve become
possessed by our own minds. If you don’t
believe it, just watch your mind in action for
the next couple of hours or days. Catch
yourself thinking. And try to watch whether or
not those thoughts are empowering or negative.
Then, just for an experiment, see if you can
turn them off at will. And try to see how long
they stay off before. It’s a bit of a trick to
watch yourself think, but give it a shot.
Once I started
re-listening to the book, I discovered that this
phantom sweet tooth was in fact my mind trying
to repeat a lifelong habit, which now mainly
plays out after my kids go to bed. At that
point, my mind knows that it’s time for ice
cream or another form of sugary or chocolaty
dessert.
That’s what I’ve done
most of my life, and that’s what my mind is most
comfortable with. So it’s insistent that I
actually have some, even if my body says it
doesn’t want any.
Crazy, right? Well, yes,
I find this absolutely bonkers. But there are
tricks for turning off old patterns of thought.
And that’s what we’ll start to cover in the next
newsletter.
In the meantime, if you
want to pick up The Power of Now, or any of
Tolle’s other books, just go to Tolle's Books . I promise it
will help you better understand where these
phantom habits of mind come from a lot better
than I can.
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