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Contents
1.
Survey Results
2.
All Year's Resolutions
3. Book
Review: Eating, Drinking, Overthinking
Your HRH Program E-book and
Bonuses
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Survey Results
Thanks to all of you who
wrote back about your opinions on a HRH Program
Forum. The opinions broke down into just about
half for a forum, half for something else. I
think I’ll hold off on the forum for now, but I
want to introduce a new feature of the web site
based on the something else ideas.
Some said that they would
rather go straight to the source (the source
being me I assume) for their answers. But they
also mentioned that I could post their
questions, and the answers to them, on the web
site, as long as I stripped out their
identifying information.
So I’ll set up an “Ask
Craig Anything” page on the site within a few
days, and I’ll be taking questions for it
between now and the next newsletter. So, fire
away, at this special e-mail address:
ask-craig@heartratehealth.com, and I’ll try
to get your anonymous question up with an answer
within a few days of receiving it.
Now, can you really ask
anything? Well, yes, but I’ll likely focus on
things that have something to do with the HRH
Program, just so you know.
All Year's
Resolutions
Just as I was sitting down
in my favorite coffee shop to write this, I
heard someone say “it’s not a resolution, it’s a
lifestyle change.” So, are resolutions “out”?
Well, it certainly seems that we don’t take them
very seriously anymore. I have joked around
with them myself.
The reason we don’t take
them seriously, of course, is that they usually
last about two to three weeks before we’re back
to the same old thing. Maybe they could be
called “New Half-of-January Resolutions.”
Last week, I suggested that
we call them All Year Resolutions, and this does
get around the two week phenomenon. Perhaps
instead we should call them Every Year
Resolutions, or even All Life Resolutions. Now
we’re getting somewhere!
Thinking of the rest of
your life, how do you want to treat your body?
When you think along this time line, one thing
almost always comes out. If you’ve started some
fad diet with severe calorie restrictions, your
first thought might be, “I certainly couldn’t do
this for my whole life!” For the most part,
diets are a terrible way to handle your health.
And your body will tell you this the moment it
figures out what’s going on.
So what could you do your
whole life? That’s what the HRH Program is all
about. Through simple exercise and eating
changes, your body slowly adapts to the healthy
way of life that it deserves by constantly
sticking to what it needs in the present. And
once it does so, it starts to reward you with
good feelings about continuing or goads you to
get back into it when you stray from it. It’s
designed to last your entire lifetime.
Like I said in the last
newsletter, though, even when our body is
balanced and craving the right foods and
exercise, our minds can still get in the way.
And this inevitably leads us down the path of
behaviors we’ve used in the past to “get by” on
a day-to-day basis.
So most of this series of
All Life Resolutions will be focused on bringing
our minds around to support us in our goals,
instead of sabotaging us. I’m excited that I
found a book that fits well with the first of
the Resolutions, and I have included a review of
this as the second part of the newsletter
below. But let’s get one of these resolutions
out in the open to talk about first.
All Life Resolution 1:
Bring your past right up to the present. And
let it go.
“Those who don’t learn from
the past are doomed to repeat it.” Is there
anyone who hasn’t heard that quote? I believe
there is a lot to learn from the past, and
learning and doing something different the next
time is great. But most of us don’t learn from
the past so much as obsess over it. So let’s
restate the quote:
“Those
who obsess about the past are doomed to repeat
it.”
Have you ever thought to
yourself, “I wish I didn’t do that every time,”
and then started to reflect on all the times
you’ve ever done it? Almost everyone has. By
definition, if we keep making the same mistakes,
we certainly haven’t learned or moved on from
them. So continuing to punish ourselves for the
same past mistakes doesn’t get us anywhere. In
fact, it may very well lock it in to our
self-conception.
So here’s a quick tip that
goes along with the book review below. Once you
recognize that you’re “doing it again”, stop
doing it. Right then and there. Easy as that.
Then, realize that the behavior is in your past
and not in your present. In your present is
only happiness and flowers and sunshine and
love. If you can train yourself to think about
anything that makes you consistently feel good,
you’ll start to automatically get rid of the bad
feelings.
Is this harder than it
sounds in the last paragraph? At first, yes,
because we’ve trained our minds to keep focusing
on the problem. But think about this for a
minute: has resorting to obsessing about your
past problems ever made them go away, or has it
resulted in more of them?
Just stop. And do
something different, something better. And when
your mind starts in again on the problem, just
stop again. And do this over and over until you
get the hang of interrupting the pattern. See
if it doesn’t perk you up after some practice.
Book Review:
Eating, Drinking, Overthinking
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Book Review section of the site.
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